Wednesday, December 12, 2012

苍蝇 A FLY


苍蝇

[cāng yíng]
释义
  • fly
网络释义概述


(Source: Wiktionary, Baike)

昨晚梦见了苍蝇,在我梦里生蛋.
常常对梦境产生疑惑的我,
睁眼第一件事就是开手机找周公解梦。
“苍蝇“ 为人间带来骚扰,象征着敌人用间接的手段损害自己,在背后搞小动作。
又看了dreammoods.com, 答案是
 
Flies :
To see flies in your dream symbolize filth and dirtiness, either physical or emotional. It indicates feelings of guilt or a breakdown of a plan. Flies may also forewarn of a contagious sickness. Alternatively, the fly could represent an irritating and annoying person in your life. Perhaps someone does not know how to mind their business.

是的,这种梦的含义不是可靠的,
不过当我联想起昨天发生的事后,
惊叹真是日有所思,夜有所梦啊!

个人蛮厌恶搞小动作,讲悄悄话的人,
我承认我当然有做过类似行为,不过,也尽量避免了。
就是有个朋友,
让我觉得他某种举动让我觉得不很舒服。

举例一,
你买了一样东西,
苍蝇就告诉第二个人说你买的东西 不好看,不好用 etc.
而且还故意让你听到。
这是太诚实,太直爽 还是故意中伤?
让你觉得你的选择是错误的,让你难堪?

举例二,
当他觉得他得益了,
就偷偷和最熟/最信任的朋友说,
殊不知那朋友说漏了嘴,
他就觉得"怎么说了出来呢?"
可是个人觉得那些沾沾自喜的话,
说和不说没差.
想问你,是在真心替自己高兴,
看到别人必须做更多而暗爽吗?
有必要
那么浅吗?

举例三,
苍蝇也是位 ATTENTION SEEKER,
喜欢称赞,喜欢重视.
我当然知道称赞和重视是每个人都需要的.
可是当
 based on a same 物品,
他拥有,你又拥有的话.
如果别人只称赞你的物品,
他如果想起别人没同样地称赞他的物品,
苍蝇会有不平衡感噢!
然后,
质问别人为什么上次没称赞他呀?
(当然是用开玩笑的语气)
可是我知道他内心是渴望attention 的小孩.

或许我不应该那么在意他的一举一动,
或许我不应该那么care他爱在背后中伤 (有心或无意)
或许我在这里帮他反省人格的当儿,
他却一秒也没有反思过他的行为,
一点也不觉得有什么不妥.
或许我不该在意这些苍蝇小事,
反正毕业了,回想,
也是种生活趣味.







Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Part time jobs

I have been taking up part time jobs, on and off  for the past 4 years (only during holidays). From telecommunication projects, milk products, beauty products to shampoo.
Some of the companies name our job position as brand consultant, brand ambassador, trial specialist, but all these fancy names actually meant "promoter".

Reason I've been doing these is to learn more in communicating & dealing with people outside, to spend my free time and of course, to earn some pocket money.

There are many students or young people like me are taking up part time jobs as a promoter.
However,it requires certain characteristics from one to perform well in this job. 
You have to be physically and mentally fit so that you can stay throughout the 8 hours of standing and approaching and talking.
8 hours of standing can be suffering for some of the people whose feet are not strong enough. You may feel back pain and swollen feet if you are not used to standing for that long.

Next, you have to be mentally fit in terms of dealing with customers, your own agency, clients (company of the product u're promoting), peers, and the staffs  (supermarket/hypermarket/malls).
As a promoter, one may face stress from all these parties.
I will start with

CUSTOMERS > Have u heard of a phrase " Customers are always right" ?
In this job, you have to bear this in mind even though you may not agree to it.
You have to pretend to be sorry even if you think you are absolutely correct.
I'm not saying all the customers are nasty, but sometimes you may encounter customers who are ignorant to your speech, purposely ignoring you, as a human being who are trying to communicate to them. It may not be a pleasant experience if somebody you are trying to interact with refused to even look at you/ avoid you.
I understand that sometimes when we shop, we do not like to be disturbed by others but to browse products  silently, on our own, as I'm also a customer myself when I'm not working.
Anyway, you must understand that it is part of our job to communicate product information to you.
It's not our fault that we are standing there, we are not in the mall to ruin your day!
All we wish is to perform our task, communicate with you, perhaps you could gain some of the product knowledge from us?~
I'm not sure about other promoters, but I'm not one who forces customers to buy the products I'm promoting as I understand it's customer's own purchasing decision.
I have done my job explaining, you may decide yourself to try or not to try the product.
That is all, I would not be upset if you do not buy after I have conveyed messages to you.
All I want is that you could  L-I-S-T-E-N and maybe some feedback or a "thank you"/
We may have sales targets to achieve, but what really makes our day is sincere feedback and true interactions with customers.
Having this work experience makes me understand money is hard to earn for some of us.
We have to deal with own emotions constantly as you deal with different customers (especially nasty ones).
Yet, some of the customers who are lovable and willing to communicate can lighten our mood and believe that not all people are too proud of themselves until they view us as transparent objects.


AGENCY 
I have been working for few agency that takes up project from clients (product company) and they are to ones who train us to for product promotions/ selling.
 There are some rules and regulations that we have to abide by:
punctuality (work,sending report,reporting out of stock issues), grooming, product knowledge,  aggressiveness (something they always want us to do),do's and don'ts during work (no handphone pressing, no eating, drink professionally, no wandering around, stand straight, no lying on rack, no chatting, stand with smiles, do not stand still, approach etc. )

You must always be alert and make sure you do not do something that makes them deduct your salary/ getting complaints from numerous parties.

After receiving a project, we have to attend training (normally last for 2-6 hours) to gain sufficient product knowledge/ products benefits.
They are the superiors that you should report to, sending them all the sales report before 12am every night after work, telling all the problems you are facing, also to evaluate your performance.

Delay in sending report - PENALTY!
Late to work - PENALTY!
Delay in handing back uniform and stuffs - DELAY IN ISSUANCE OF SALARY!!
etc.....

Of course, each company has their own rules, without rules, everything will not be systematic and on time.
Therefore, you must have strong self discipline and sense of responsibility when you've decided to take up part time promoter jobs. 


CLIENTS 
Relationship between you and client company is : 


Client > Agency > YOU

Therefore, what client says, agency follow, what agency says, you follow.
If clients found that you have not performed well, they may fire or make complaints on you. 
The agency have always told us, there are many "spys" out there trying to see how we perform our job, clients may mask themselves as mysterious shoppers,trying to test our ability to explain and sell.

This makes us feel uneasy and afraid that we have not performed well, every minute, every second.
We are afraid that someone may be watching us from far, it is even more scarier than someone evaluating to us face to face.

未知才是最可怕的!
The unknown is often the scariest!

I'm not sure about others but I often feel uptight and anxious that someone will come by suddenly evaluating your performance without you knowing.

However, when you put yourself in clients shoe, you may agree that they want to make sure that what they have been paying for people to promote their product is worth the money and doing their job with dedication.



PEERS
I perceive this term as those people who are working in the same environment with you.
They may be or may not be from the same agency with you, they may work for the competing brand.
There was one time that I worked in Mid Valley KL, promoting a well known beauty product in a drugstore.
The products I was promoting are not easy ones to sell. 
Imagine this, a drugstore, with numerous beauty product brands placed next to each other, all with different but similar functions, competitive pricing, competitive marketing strategies, almost all the brands have got promoters doing their job.

If you are a new comer, some of the promoters may look at you with hatred, saying " another competitor" in their heart, especially when both of you are working for similar products but different brand. 
Of course, not all promoters are as bad as I describe, some are friendly and willing to teach you things despite the barrier.

One day, when I was holding my product, approaching a customer near me, and started to introduce and explain the benefits of the product.....
the customer listened and walked by after saying thank you.
Suddenly, an auntie promoter approached me and said that :" how can you do this?"
I answered back in uncertainty : "why?"
She claimed that I was wrong as she already served the customer before hand, and I attempted to influence her customer.

From that incident, I realized that the sales environment is like a safari.
There are many animals competing with each other in order to live, we shall not invade other's territory and not to approach anyone who have passed by other's territory.
Once you do that, the other party may think of you who spoiled their effort and you may already made an enemy.









Wednesday, April 18, 2012

相信?

如果连你自己都不相信自己,凭什么要别人相信你?

今天,因为某人的一个问题,我从他的眼神里,看到了质疑和否定。
他的眼神,似乎在告诉我,他否定我那方面的能力。
我真的那么不棒吗?

这是我踏入象牙塔的第三年,
毕业在际,
大家都纷纷担心自己未来的去向。
感觉上,大家都已经为明年的社会实习有了一些打算。
我感觉到。好彷徨。
我也祈望我也会有个好前程。
会的,真的。

昨天,
出席了一个为即将毕业的大学生所举办的讲座。
演讲者Puan Elia Talib 说了,
大学生
找工作,
最重要的是,
知道自己要的是什么,
One man's meat is another man's poison.
你想要的life 不一定是别人也想要的.

我也不想一直帮别人打工,
我也相信,
读了那么多年书,
I am worth more than that.
我也可以成为出色的人,
然而,那真的需要好多好多的智慧与勇气.

在seminar 里,
我一边听,就一边在想...
大学,就好比一间间的工厂,
每年都有几百万上下的产品新鲜出炉,
我们这些产品,
都在拼了命的,
包装自己,推销自己,
用尽全力,
想要把自己找个best deal 卖出去.
事实就是如此而已.











Saturday, April 14, 2012

Count your blessings

23 yrs old 2012.
不知不觉,我已经是23岁的女孩了。
不知为何,人越长大,越不期待生日的到来。
以前的我,认为20几岁已经是个大人。
然而,我看现在的我,心里还是个小孩。
我把fb 里的birthday notification删了,
因为我想真心谢谢
真正记得我生日的人们。

谢谢roommate, 你的礼物让我在房间内尖叫了许久~












谢谢四朵金花登门surprise,
假假送我几枝有香味的颜色笔和“脚链”
然后假假走掉,
又去拿另一份礼物 -.-"
辛苦咯!=P


谢谢v & m, 每年without fail 的不让我孤单度过。=)




















谢谢陛,
很努力的想要我开心地度过... =)




















谢谢sharon for your cute little gift,











谢谢家人和我庆祝,我们很久没有好好的聚在一块了 =)